27 June 2010

The Latest

We try to go somewhere as a family every Saturday during the summer. This week's trip was temple square. We had a really good time and the kids wanted to do everything. We'll have to go back again to get to the stuff we missed. The observation deck on the church office building was open so we rode to the top. Thank goodness none of the kids had ear infections! Mine were ringing from the rapid elevator ride but the kids just said they felt like they were flying.







20 June 2010

Highs and lows

I was at a low point once. It was back to school time, Walmart, Saturday. I don't know why I thought it would be a good idea to take 4 kids to Walmart on a hot summer day, late in the afternoon. (I don't think we even had naps that day.) Maybe I thought since I was buying the kids backpacks, it would buy their love, devotion, and good behavior for the afternoon. Maybe it was driving me nuts to be stuck inside with not enough distractions to help the twins contain, at least in a very small way, their excitement about the upcoming debut into kindergarten. Not that I really wanted them to keep it in, just that I had to help them be patient until the first day of school actually began. You can only answer the question "How many more days?" so often before you go crazy.

Anyway, after many firm, yet loving reminders to stop whining, screaming, crying, etc. with threats of "Do you want me to put all of the backpacks back?" and "You'll have a nap when we get home" something snapped. I remember being conscious of that fact that I was at a low point. I tried to pry the offending child out of the cart when she employed the use of the oh-so-effective "rubber legs". I had meant to just get her out and put someone else in, but by the time I had wrestled her from the cart, I was gone and monster mom had replaced me. The lady in the aisle with me kept glaring at me. Well! I raised my hand and SPANKED MY CHILD IN WALMART!! That wiped the glare off the nosy lady's face...unfortunately she replaced it with a judgmental "what-kind-of-parent-are-you?" face. I glared right back at her and challenged her to call social services on me.

I write this experience because last night we savored a high. We went to the ward swimming party at the Scera. As I watched my little (and I mean little as in age) family play and laugh together all I could think about was how blessed I really am. I wished I could have gotten a picture of Jane and Lizzy holding tight to Jason while they stood under buckets of water that would fill and suddenly pour gallons of water on them. Or Ben begging to go swim in the deeper part-he normally won't go into the water very far or ever put his head under the water. Liam was calm and happy for the first time in a while, I think the cold water soothed him. I wish I could have captured Natalie's smile after she slid down the slide into the shallow water. She was wearing one of those suits that had inserts of floaties in it. She looked like a round little.... something adorable!!

Thanks Mom and Dad for taking Eli so we could spend a great night bonding with the other kids. We had a blast!!

16 June 2010

Na na na na Life Goes On









Things have been pretty crazy since my last post. Well, actually, I think things have been a lot crazy since the twins came! I think the biggest thing we've learned in the last year is that life continues to move forward, whether we like it or not. Here's an update on the fam:Lizzy and Jane turned 6! They are pretty sure they are very grown up. They've lost several baby teeth and their new GIANT front teeth are movin' in. They were upset when school ended but have thrown all of their energy into taking full advantage of summer and new friends in a new neighborhood. Jane asked me yesterday if she could go around the neighborhood and make some new friends. (I had to explain to her that I have to be with her when she does this as the last time we went to the park, she went up to some strange grown-ups, "made them her friends," and proceeded to teach them all how to play a new game she had invented.) Liz is catching up on her reading and spends a lot of time running around playing mommy.Liam is really growing up. He often surprises me with his funny sense of humor. All the kids like to tell jokes. He seems to always be looking for a reason to laugh. He graduated from preschool and we all survived the program-but just barely. He got to say his line first ("America, America, it's for me, the land of the brave and the home of the free."-still gets stuck in my head.) After that, I had to stand next to the "stage" and keep him quiet for the rest of the program. His flag became a sword, his tambourine a hat, and so forth. The little girl next to him enjoyed playing with him. He informed me later that she was his girlfriend. Hmmm....
Ben has been enjoying the freedom that summer brings. I've had to take his bike away for a few days because he kept getting on it and just riding where ever he felt like going! He's really enjoying having so many grown-ups around to take him places. He's been trying all sorts of grown up things, particularly board games. He has now been initiated into the world of "Settlers".The babies are doing well. Though they are both growing up WAY TOO FAST! I wish I could pause them and enjoy each moment (except at night-sleep would be nice. I would like to have coherent thoughts during the day). Natalie is really starting to learn some new words. Her cute little voice always saves her from scoldings. She'll do something naughty, like maul grandma's fern, pull dirt out of the living room pot onto the newly shampooed carpet, or play in the toilet, and then look up at me with her big brown eyes, rosy cheeks, and curly strawberry hair. HOW CAN I GET MAD AT THAT?! Eli is learning everything about everything. He has grabby little fists now that put everything into his mouth. He likes to scream. I don't mean cry, I mean his babbles are screams. We went to the Hill Aerospace museum and he discovered that his voice echoed in the airplane hangers really well! He's a good sleeper and eater and has discovered the joys of solid food. What a nice boy!!

We've been following our summer tradition of going somewhere as a family every Saturday and have had some really fun outings. Sometimes I feel like it's the only time of the week when we all get along. I guess that's how it is in a big family, someone's always upset about something, but then there's always someone to cheer that person up!

We feel really blessed to be together and look forward to better circumstances. In the meantime, it's sure nice to have Grandma and Grandpa so close by. They kids love the extra attention and I love sharing kitchen and house hold projects with my mom! It's a spoiled woman who doesn't have to cook every night or do laundry every day!